Thursday, 25 February 2016

When to Pull the Plug

If there is one thing I could do Erect On Demand Review when someone tells me she just called the guy she met on the internet, or at the coffee bar, or the cafe, it would be to turn back the hands of time. She just made a critical mistake. She talked - too soon - and probably too much. I don't know where in our upbringing we get the pictures in our head of lazy moments in bed, sharing hours of deep dark secrets and exploring deep emotional depths but wherever it came from it is a huge barrier to getting the guy. If that's what you think is going to happen when you "connect" then you will find yourself very unconnected very soon.



Women are social creatures, we love to talk, and connect. Those are lovely characteristics, much needed in this life. But use them too soon in a relationship and presto chango, the guy of your dreams is gone. Ditch the idea that the guy you just met is your soulmate. More likely he is thinking not of you but of the game he's going to watch or the presentation he has to make at work or which bar is he going to head to tonight. What you think was "connecting" was just part of the game for him. Sure he liked you. Yes, you were fun, interesting and made him feel good. So what do you do now? STOP! That's right. Stop. Do nothing.

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