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To Spark Arousal Review How long does it take for you to fall in
love? A recent research study suggested that we could fall in love in
8 minutes. Dr. Helen Fisher of Rutgers University, says, "I
think that you can fall in love with somebody in much less than 8
minutes of conversation but 8 minutes will do. I think we are an
animal that was built for love at first sight." How often do you
fall in love? Some personality types adore the "new love
chemistry high" and they fall in and out of love with abandon.
Are
you enamored (addicted?) with the experience? Since we are not
perfect creatures we were given a chemical to mask our new love
interest's faults. Researcher, Dr. Robert Friar, assures us this is
true, "Falling in love involves Phenylethylamine or PEA, which
causes a person to be less likely to be aware of the faults of the
other person." Ask yourself, would you fall in love with someone
who throws his underwear on the floor if you were not highly
inebriated by amour? Serotonin and dopamine, two mood neurochemicals
create much of the decidedly pleasurable love intoxication that
overwhelms us. Do people who fall in love rapidly and habitually have
more of the "love" neurochemicals? We really don't know.
Falling
in love is one of the most spectacular and utterly magnificent
experiences that can befall a mere human. The symptoms are similar to
some psychological disorders. One study indicated that subjects who
had recently fallen in love had more in common (chemically) with
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder subjects with than with normal
subjects. Thus, our world is turned upside down and we are perfectly
happy not knowing what we are doing, where we are, or even who we
are. Other people cease to exist as far as Romeo and Juliet are
concerned. We walk around with the silliest grin on our
faces...completely unaware it is there. Schoolwork suffers, careers
suffer, and we couldn't care less. Life is good, the world is filled
with bliss and we are in LOVE... And yet, with all of the psychotic
symptoms and inconveniences we would not trade that fabulously
enthralling condition for anything in our solar system. Are you in
love with love?
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